A Traveler’s Guide thr Suffering & Joy

Hearing God’s Voice Through the Hurt. (How Then Shall We Hear? Part 2)

I opened an email recently from a dear friend, Brenda, who is traveling through breast cancer. She’s had surgery. Currently, she is following a regimen of chemotherapy which will be followed by radiation.

I met Brenda back in 1978 when I was a thoroughly green, new teacher, smack out of college. Brenda was the young mama of one bubbling, blond bundle, two year old Rebecca. Brenda’s husband was the head of the English department at Baymonte Christian High School. I had been hired to fill an opening in the English department after a young teacher had been killed in a driving accident on highway 17 between San Jose and Scotts Valley, California. The school was in Scotts Valley. I had never heard of this California town before Mr. Wallace, the school’s superintendent, came to Grace College in Winona Lake, Indiana, looking for a teacher to fill Carol’s roll.

I had recently graduated from Grace. Mr. Wallace talked me into accepting the teaching position he needed to fill. No, this is not true. He did not talk me into it. He could not convince me. I had no interest. I was looking for a teaching position in either Ohio or Indiana. No. I was not interested in moving across country. Not one cell in my body was willing to trek across the country to some place I had never heard of to take on my first, full-time career position, all by myself. No.

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Online Course and Resource Update; Prayer Always Needed

I presented two great opportunities to you in my August 14 post. Here’s an update.

My Bible study, A Traveler’s Guide through Suffering and Joy, is still on sale, but the price has risen, so now you can buy 2 books for the price of one rather than three. Still a great deal.

My second opportunity presented was about an online class I planned to start this fall. It is being delayed. Here is what’s up:

I am working with a tech man to help me update my website, hoping to add some printable resources and video recordings. I think that’s all I’ll be able to handle this fall, and I will let you know when they are uploaded on my website for you to use and share.  I will also let you know when we’ll be ready to proceed with the online class/community in which we’ll travel through the Bible study. Please pray over all of this! Thank you!!

New Season Of Prayer

Is there ever a time not to pray? No! The time is always now (I Thes. 5:17). There is no doubt that the Holy Spirit is wooing and moving, as He did over the formless void of the watery, deep darkness in Genesis 1:2. Let us pray in agreement with the Spirit.

Lord, through the darkness of Charlie Kirk’s martyrdom, we hear Your voice exclaiming, “Let there be light,” and You are banishing darkness from hearts now softened through the light of the gospel proclaimed by Charlie and by Christ-followers around the globe. Here we are, Lord! Send us. Use us. Connect us. Bring healing through Christ’s death for us and His resurrection, as one, two, tens, thousands, and millions call to You.

“All who call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved” (Romans 10:13), for “if you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that

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How Can We Make Sense of the Senseless? (Podcast interview at end)

Consider two September days, separated by twenty-four years. September 11, 2001 (9/11) with the loss of some 3000 people. Then, the assassination of Charlie Kirk on September 10, 2025.

Charlie wanted to be remembered first for his faith in Jesus Christ.  On this foundation he built his life as well as his work as a conservative influencer, founding Turning Point USA at the age of 18. Lethally shot, Charlie (a mere 31) left a beautiful wife and two little ones, the ages of my youngest grandchildren. His life’s race is completed.

I have heard people refer to these tragedies as senseless. I think they mean they are acts of injustice. The 3,000 lives lost were innocent victims. Charlie was an innocent victim. Thus, terrorism is senseless, but of course, we know there is some sense (logic, reason, however unhinged or demonic) behind the violence. So, we ask, “Why?” We ask, “How do I make sense of the senseless?”

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On Being Human

Have you heard this? Maybe you’ve said this?

“Human!”

It’s a response to being called out for error, forgetfulness, and even wrong doing.

Sam came home with the groceries but bought the wrong kind of gluten free flour. His wife, Sue, had listed the exact one she needed for the dessert she was making to take to the family reunion for those members with dietary restrictions. Sam made an error. Sue was irritated.

“Human!” Sam defended himself.

Sam and Sue drove eighty miles to get to this family reunion. They remembered their lawn chairs, cooler filled with food and drinks, gifts for the grandparents, but they forgot the rare, old newspaper articles! Everyone was to contribute old family photos and newspaper clippings about Grandpa and Grandma from decades ago which cousin Martha was going to have digitalized to make into a family book. Sue was the only one in the family who had possession of the newspaper articles about Grandpa as a local baseball champion in his youth. Her cousin was counting on her. The articles were still where she placed them on her kitchen table. Sigh.

“Human!” Sue was mad at herself.

Cousin Martha lied. She’d been lying about it for years! Lying to herself, lying to her family and friends. Why? She did not want to face her financial reality. She did not want to change her lifestyle, so she borrowed and borrowed and borrowed money. Now, she was losing her house. She had to move. Martha unloaded her burden on Sue as they sat away from the rest of the family, near the old weeping willow tree they once played under as girls.  The tree wept with them. There was so much to say, so much to face, so much to do, but what should Martha do?

“Human!” claimed Martha. “So true!” consoled Sue.

But really? Is it really human nature to make errors, to forget, and to do wrong? Can we sort this out?

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Presenting Two Great Opportunities for You and Me

I have two great opportunities to present to you before I report to you about the podcast interview I was preparing for when I last posted. Some have asked how it went. I’ll tell you a bit at the end of this post and then more another time. For now, let me share some emerging possibilities that could bless you and some of your friends.

First, we’ve been given an opportunity. What opportunity? Well, check out the Amazon page on my book. The link is near the bottom of this post.

The price has greatly dropped on Amazon (but not on Barnes & Noble), so now is the time to buy some copies for friends and family. (Currently, you can buy three copies for the price of one.) These copies are the first printing of the first edition. Some charts have been added and edits have been made which will be found in copies after all of these first printings are sold. I can send you the added charts and changes if you order soon, if you send me a request via email. I’ll give you contact information below.

Second, here’s an opportunity that I’m offering: an online class/community traveling through this Bible study,  A Traveler’s Guide through Suffering and Joy. Would you like to be a part of this? I’m hoping to start the group study in mid-September, trekking through the book in eight to nine sessions, finishing before Thanksgiving.  We’ll meet online (GoogleMeets or something like this) once a week for live gatherings which will be recorded so you can listen to them later if you can’t always join us. (I’ll get back with you on the time schedule, but if you want to let me know your preferences, please do so. We’ll see what we can do.)

Buy your cheap copies of my book now. Look through the book, and ask God to lead you to a partner or group to do this with you. You can gather your own little group of friends and relatives to journey together!

Be encouraged and inspired by the book description on the back of the book (which you can read on the Amazon page or on my website). Use that description to encourage others to join you.

There’s more:

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Giving Advice to Your Younger Self

Have you ever been asked the question, “What advice would you give to your younger self?” Hmm. How would you answer?

Recently, I was sent this question in a short list of questions I was given to prepare for an upcoming podcast interview. I’m wanting to discuss my book, A Traveler’s Guide through Suffering and Joy, but first I’ll be asked some questions about my life.  Actually, the interviewers are looking to hear interesting life stories of faith more than they are interested in discussing the contents of a book.  I agreed to the interview, hoping that telling some of my story will be a platform to tell about my book, which will be the last topic of our conversation.  I don’t think that I can answer their questions about my life without referring to themes in my book. The last of the provided questions before discussing the book is about giving advice to one’s younger self.

This sounds like a currently popular and clever way to offer advice to others while revealing something of the arc of your own growth.  So I’ve been simmering on possible replies.

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On Reading Aloud

Do you like to have someone read to you? Do you like to read aloud for others?

Paul is reading aloud to me a series that we’ve read numerous times. We’ve read this series on our own. We’ve read these books to our children. We’ve read them to our grandchildren. Why read them again? And why now?

Again? Because these stories engage our minds and comfort our spirits. Now? Because as my health has further limited me this year, Paul and I are further limited in our ability to do things together that would be either normal or desirable for a couple to do together. Paul is very physically active and I am not. Reading aloud offers a pleasant experience we can share together.

Paul is reading The Chronicles of Narnia by C.S. Lewis to me.Paul reading to his wife. We are finishing tonight our fourth book, Prince Caspian. Reliving the Narnia stories takes us on adventures that cost little physical energy. Attention is needed, which does require some energy, and attention opens the mental door of imagination. Even at the age of 70, we imbibe biblical and virtuous lessons from these tales. We smile, laugh, and discuss.

Oh, did I write 70?

Today Paul turns 71!

Happy Birthday, my Sweetheart!

 

 

 

 

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Speaking of adventures through books:

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What Makes You Persevere? And Any Book Updates?

What makes you persevere?

We’re still here, so apparently, we have persevered through the winter, and now spring unfolds upon us. Thank You, Lord! “We’ve come this far by faith, leaning on the Lord….” *

What makes you persevere? This question can take us in many directions, and no matter the direction (personal, psychological, spiritual, relational, or theological), it will take us deep into its own country.

I could story-tell about my winter in Florida, and I’d rather like to do so. I’d also like to delve into the biblical challenge to persevere as explained in Romans chapter 5. “Having been justified by faith… we exult in hope…”(Romans 5:1). Biblical hope empowers me to persevere. The Holy Spirit can use this chapter to motivate us. Before I say anymore about hope-induced perseverance, let me update you on some activity regarding my book, A Traveler’s Guide through Suffering and Joy.

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From the First to the Last, Every Breath is Sacred

While we walk through life one moment at a time, sometimes the moments feel like ages and sometimes they feel like fleeting breaths, flying through us unable to be caught. Such is life. I have a prayer to share with you today, but first, I’d like to repeat a few lines from a song by Claire Cloninger that I shared with you in my last post. After speeding through the first month of 2025, we need to remember:

From the first bright light of morning,

To the last warm glow of dusk;

Every breath we take is sacred,

For it is God’s gift to us.*

Therefore, together, let us pray:

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As the Years Go By: Meaningful Breaths

I opened the dashboard for this blog this morning wanting to write a new post. I’ve taken a break from writing, for the most part, since Thanksgiving. I needed the breather. While we are ten days into the new year, it is yet the new year, so I say with you, “Welcome to 2025!”

As I looked over my dashboard (the interior of my WordPress blog), I found that two readers recently had pulled up a very old post of mine dated January 17, 2012. (This blog was birthed in November of 2011.) At that time this blog was part of my ministry as the curriculum director for Troy Christian Schools in Troy, Ohio, although I was living in Arizona. My articles were short then because they were written mainly for parents of our students, and I posted more often.

The following is my January 2012 post which I find to still be relevant, as well as gentle and refreshing. It is short.

Let our work inhabit our prayer. Let our prayer inhabit our work.

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Take a read:

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